What qualifies as Zina
Basically I have been wondering what qualifies as Zina more specifically if oral and “handjobs” are major sins and are in the same category as fornication.
Answer
Wa’alaykum as Salām wa raḥmatullāhi wa barakātuhu,
A glance at the opposite gender is Zīna of the eyes. Touching is Zīna of the hands. As such, by reaching the point of mutual masturbation, a person will already perpetrate many sins. Then the acts that you have described are also major sins.