How to approach to my cousin with this issue
I found a cousin (15) of mine doing tiktok of him as femboy, kpop or whatever. thats not the worst part tho, i found that he was keeping a video of Adhan with porn sound in background he was in there too …
Anyways, far as i know he is aware of the Islamic teachings but not that practicing.
Never thought he will do something like this, he will lie to me i guess if i ask. Kind of awkward so how can i talk to him about this. Because its a serious issue.
Answer
Wa’alaykum as Salām wa raḥmatullāhi wa barakātuhu,
You should adopt the following:
- Make Du‘ā for him.
- Speak to him in a general way. In passing, tell him that some people watch movies and have the Adhān as a background. This could lead to Kufr.
- In a general conversation mention about the harms of porn. Mention the worldly harms and the harms of the hereafter.