Dead relative giving orders in dream
Asal alikom So its not my dream its a girl that i love with all my heart and she does too ,And we are planning yo get married when im done with my studies like 3 years from now im 19 atm and she’s too , . We don’t meet nor do any haram or even talk much . And we are waiting for the right time to get married when im financially stable to support her. Few months ago her grandma died rdue to COVID , she loved her grandma alot two weeks ago she started being very depressed and not talking she said she saw a dream not once but twice where she saw her late Grandma coming in her dream telling her these words
” Arooba (her name) don’t make your parents unhappy or stressed i know hammad (me) loves you alot but it will create a great chaos , distress for you in the future” .
Two times same words and now she’s too scared to talk to me or to marry me. Even tho she can insist her parente into willing for this marriage but we just don’t know what to do anymore at this point .
Answer
Wa ʿAlaykumus Salām Wa Raḥmatullāhi Wa Barakātuh
The dream in question may be taken as advice from the side of Allāh ﷻ.
The best advice for both of you here onwards is to perform Ṣalāh al-Istikhārah and to ask Allāh ﷻ for guidance, notwithstanding the fact that what we want may not always be what is good for us and what is meant for us.
There is also no harm in discussing with your own families, or perhaps for you to meet with her father and open up to him about the current scenario and the challenges revolving around it, especially since there exists no illicit relationship.
You may also consider setting this aside until you are actually prepared to marry because until you are not ready to make Nikāh, neither of you are bound to marry each other. Let this not deter you from the other beautiful things in your life at this stage that you may want to achieve or progress in.