Talaq ka masla
I live in abroad and my husband does not help me in house hold chores and i used to tell him that if i knew you are like this i would have never married you and yesterday i was again in angry mood and asked my husband the same words and he said with annoynence go and marry some one you are free . i immediately asked him what did you just say he said, you are free go and marry someone if you want this .
Kindly tell me did talaq happened with these sayings of my husband
Answer
In the Name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
As-salāmu ‘alaykum wa-rahmatullāhi wa-barakātuh.
Respected sister,
It’s saddening to see Muslims fighting over khidmah ie serving of their own family. We forget the loads of ajr it has, the humility that it brings and the connection it makes to our lord.
Anyways, one irrevocable divorce has happened, the first time he said those words.
You are free to marry anyone after your iddat or waiting period of passing of three menstrual cycles or three months full if you do not mensturate.
If you and your husband want to stay together then you can even remarry within iddat with new mahr and witnesses.
Kindly visit a trusted and knowledgeable fatwa centre or fiqh counsel near you so your case is thoroughly studied and then given a verdict.
May Allah Subhanahu wa Ta’ala grant you and your children a life of aafiat.
And Allah Ta’āla Knows Best