Dream
i am a Muslim and i am 16 and I like a girl who is a Christian and she is 16. She is my class mate. Since two and more months i dream about her. Every day, in the dream she is always happy when she is around me and in dream we look like we are in relationship. Those dreams comes literally every day when I sleep. Today i had a dream about us. In the dream i saw her that she was crying, and when I approached her she began to be happy and started to smile. This thing happened ever time i drams about her. That she is happier when i am with her in dreams and i can remember what happened in the dream after I woke up. So my question what does those dreams mean’s?
Answer
In the Name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
As-salāmu alaykum wa-rahmatullāhi wa-barakātuh.
Dear child,
How amazing are we; the humans! How intricate is our minds, our hearts, our eyes, infact all our bodies! Gifts of our loving and giving lord. We must use them in accordance to our lord’s guidelines.
Dreams are of three types:
1: good tidings from Allah
2:suggestions of our minds or
3:evil dream / nightmares from Satan.
Your dream is either your thoughts or Satan’s instigation. Our beloved prophet advised us to take refuge from Allah, spit to the left, change side and stand in prayers on seeing such dreams.
Dear child, our Lord gave us everything and guidance to using it.
Companionship of the opposite gender is a need that Muslims can fulfill through nikah only. There is no other way.
Allah orders those who are fortunate to believe in Him to lower their gaze, protect their chastity, stay away from free mixing and fornication.
So stay away from that girl. It will be difficult in the beginning but will gain you closeness to your lord and His love.