Does imaging mom while musterbating is hurmate musaahara
I imagined my mom while musterbating and ejaculated on a pic of her. Now I learned about hurmate musaahara later. Is my mom’s marriage valid to my father. I’ve never touched her with lust. It was a pic (face) I ejaculated on. Please help.
Answer
In the Name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
As-salāmu ‘alaykum wa-rahmatullāhi wa-barakātuh.
Respected son,
May Allah Subhanahu wa Ta’ala purify you from the filth of sinful acts and thoughts.
Hurmat Musāharah is established when there is a physical contact (without the barrier of a thick cloth) or looking at the private parts with Shahwat (lust), experienced at the exact time of touching.
Your parents’ nikah is still intact.
Dear child, you are our backbone. Balancing your thoughts and actions is crucial. It’s essential to approach relationships and personal matters with respect and understanding.
All islamic teachings embody wisdom, mercy, and good. Both men and women have been created with desire and lust. This desire can be directed in wrongful ways and people can harm those around them in order to fulfill their desires. This harm can—and does—exist within immediate family, to devastating harm, hurt, and lasting consequences. To prevent and deter this harm, a firm punishment of invalidity of marriage has been put in place.
It is important for both men and women to maintain decency, dignity, and modesty in both dress and conduct even within family. Not looking at one’s family members (besides one’s own spouse) with desire; not acting with ill-intent; and so on are all obligatory.
If one has ill-thoughts about family members, one needs to seek Allah’s forgiveness (istighfar); repent from any active thinking with desire about them; guard one’s gaze and conduct; and—if this struggle persists—one must immediately seek qualified counsel, as the personal or familial harm of such desires is devastating.
If one is tested, yet they turn to Allah Most High for assistance and take the means described above, then Divine Facilitation is promised.
And Allah is the giver of success and facilitation