Desperate youth

25 Jan 2022 Ref-No#: 650

I am a 22 year old guy who is not yet married. I’m really filled with lust but can’t get married because my parents won’t let me. I’m afraid I will fall into Haram acts at times. So I usually think about intimate moments I will have with my future wife (without having any specific woman in my mind).
At times, I also read Islamic books on sex and get really excited ( no masturbation or fantasizing). When I do all these Though a transparent fluid discharges, I do not have a gushing feeling as of masturbation.

Also do make Dua for me to get married quickly

Answer

WaʿAlaykumus Salām Wa Raḥmatullāhi Wa Barakātuh

Kindly refer to Fatwaa Ref-No#: 649.

In your case, since you are unmarried, we advise you to refrain from and avoid any types of sexual material, fearing that Shayṭān will use such avenues to eventually lead you towards masturbation and other prohibited sexual practices.

We ask Allāh ﷻ to assist you in curbing your desires and managing them accordingly, and we also ask Allāh ﷻ to grant you a pious spouse and to bless you in your sustenance.

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